Yes, and I can halfway understand... I mean, we are actually a 50/50 country right now, or maybe like 51/49, and I think that squaring off as enemies all the time is not serving us well.

My heart just breaks for my friends for whom this is so hurtful. That's the crux of it to me. It feels like salt in a very fresh wound. So even though I can see what you are saying, and can even feel hopeful about it in a way, it still makes me really sad. I think that's my biggest problem with it.